Why Starting Is Scary (And How to Push Through)

Do you ever feel the weight of hesitation holding you back? Imagine standing on the edge of possibility, staring into the unknown, your dreams just within reach—but your fear of starting keeps you frozen. What if, on the other side of that fear, lies the version of you you’ve always wanted to become?

This week, we’re diving into the fear of starting—the doubt, the what-ifs, and the stories we tell ourselves that hold us back. Together, we’ll uncover how to break free, one small step at a time.

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⚡️ Quick Rundown:

• Why the fear of starting exists and how it holds us back.

• Practical ways to overcome hesitation and take that first step.

• A reflection on why progress matters more than perfection.

⭐️ The Illusion of Perfection

We often convince ourselves that we need to have all the answers, every step planned, and the perfect circumstances in place before we can begin. But the truth is, perfection is a moving target—one we can never fully reach. The fear of imperfection stops us from taking the very first step, keeping our dreams and ideas locked away in our minds.

The reality is this: starting messy beats not starting at all. Every masterpiece, every great invention, and every success story began with someone taking an imperfect first step. It’s in the doing—the learning, the tweaking, and the growing—that clarity and progress emerge.

Personal Note:

I’ve been guilty of this mindset far too often. I’ve waited for the “perfect” time to start projects, convinced that I needed all the answers before I could take the leap. But that perfect time never came. There were always excuses—a lack of time, resources, or confidence. It wasn’t until I began this page as well as other projects, messy and uncertain, that I realised the most important lesson: progress doesn’t come from overthinking; it comes from action.

This page, in its early stages, is far from perfect. But it exists, and that alone is progress. It’s proof that even with doubts and imperfections, starting can lead to something meaningful. It’s a reminder that every step forward, no matter how small or imperfect, builds momentum.

The next time you find yourself hesitating, remember this: waiting for perfection is just another way of procrastinating. Start now, adjust as you go, and trust the process.

⭐️ Fear of Failure vs. Fear of Regret

The fear of failing is universal. It whispers doubts, magnifies risks, and convinces us to stay within the safety of the known. But there’s a quiet, often overlooked truth: regret hits harder than failure ever could.

Failure is temporary; it’s a lesson, a stepping stone. Regret, on the other hand, lingers. It’s the “what if” that follows you, reminding you of the paths you didn’t take and the chances you let slip by. So, ask yourself this: What’s worse—failing, or never knowing what could have been?

⭐️ Action Breeds Clarity

We often wait for clarity before we act, believing we need to have all the answers before taking the first step. But clarity doesn’t come from waiting—it comes from doing. As Mark Zuckerberg wisely put it, “Ideas don’t come out fully formed—they become clear as you work on them.”

Action creates momentum, and momentum reveals possibilities you couldn’t see before. It’s in the doing—the messy trial-and-error process—that we uncover what works, refine what doesn’t, and find direction.

Reflection:

When I posted my first reel, I had no idea if it would resonate with anyone. There was uncertainty and doubt, but I started anyway. By taking that first step, I began to learn what connected with others, adjusted my approach, and slowly, this space began to take shape.

If I had waited for the perfect idea or a fully formed plan, I might still be stuck at the starting line. Action is the spark that turns potential into progress. Remember, the path becomes clear only when you’re willing to walk it.

🏃‍♂️ Actionable Steps (No BS)

1. Write down the smallest possible step you can take today. Then do it.

2. Set a timer for 5 minutes and brainstorm ideas without judgment—whether for a project, hobby, or goal you’ve been avoiding.

3. Reframe your thinking: Instead of asking, “What if I fail?”, ask, “What can I learn if I try?”

🤔 Key Takeaways + One Thought-Provoking Question

Key Takeaways:

• Progress begins when you let go of the need to get it right the first time.

• Fear is a sign you care about the outcome—it’s not a reason to stop.

• The first step doesn’t need to be perfect; it just needs to happen.

Question:

What’s one thing you’ve been putting off because you’re afraid of starting?

🪴 Growth Notes

This week’s resources:

1. Mel Robbins’ 5-Second Rule – A quick technique to break hesitation and take action immediately.

2. Book: Atomic Habits by James Clear – A guide to building systems that make starting easier and more consistent.

✍️ A Sneak Peak Into the Community

Last week, I posted a clip from Mark Zuckerberg’s speech: “… ideas don’t come out fully formed, they only become clear as you work on them” This post reserves as a reminder that taking the leap often feels uncertain for everyone, but only through taking action will we get to see a clearer light of it.

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